@acarson Yeah! That's been the biggest adjustment for me. When I try group things, within about five minutes, I have a monster migraine. I think that's because I'm concentrating so hard to pick out what people are saying. I did this for years. Finally decided I wasn't doing it anymore, and I needed to step up and say what I need instead of just adapting all the time. It's amazing what people will do if you explain what you need and why. My condo assoc. folks are all texting me now to let me know things or to get my input or ideas. No one seems to mind, and my stress level went way down, as a result.